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âKevinâs poor performance shows lack of understanding. I expect improvement.â That's what Mrs. Kâmy high school calculus teacherâsaid on a progress report back in 1989. Mrs. K was a real ball-buster⌠never satisfied with my work. Her commentâand the failing gradeâwere a wake-up call. I doubled my effort⌠but saw little improvement. It felt like I was chasing a moving target. Only later did I learn that Mrs. K failed to mention one important thing on that progress report: My 69 was the highest...
This two-minute clip contains one of the most powerful tactics for building a great life: Separate the truth from the decision. It saved my marriage.Watch this clip, then keep reading. So often, we avoid the truthâor worse, lie to ourself and othersâbecause we're afraid of what comes next.This causes us to live in dissonance. It's the source of most of our pain. The key to achieving alignment is recognizing that: Acknowledgingthe truth and taking action are Ttwo separate things imply...
âWhy was I so averse to doing it the ânormalâ way? Why was I unable to just be ok with climbing the ladder and calling it a day?â â@thedulab on X This email is personalâitâs for people (like me) who canât be normal. Iâm an extreme case study: I made it all the way to the top. I landed the dream jobâcomplete with a 7-figure salary, prestige, fancy office, and executive perks. I was a made man. All I needed to do was sit in an office, do good work, and collect fat paychecks. But I couldnât be...