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This two-minute clip contains one of the most powerful tactics for building a great life: Separate the truth from the decision. It saved my marriage.Watch this clip, then keep reading. So often, we avoid the truth—or worse, lie to ourself and others—because we're afraid of what comes next.This causes us to live in dissonance. It's the source of most of our pain. The key to achieving alignment is recognizing that: Acknowledgingthe truth and taking action are Ttwo separate things imply...
“Why was I so averse to doing it the ‘normal’ way? Why was I unable to just be ok with climbing the ladder and calling it a day?” —@thedulab on X This email is personal—it’s for people (like me) who can’t be normal. I’m an extreme case study: I made it all the way to the top. I landed the dream job—complete with a 7-figure salary, prestige, fancy office, and executive perks. I was a made man. All I needed to do was sit in an office, do good work, and collect fat paychecks. But I couldn’t be...
The Time is Now Last week, I ran into an old climbing friend who I hadn’t seen in 10 years. He has Parkinson’s now, with severe symptoms. It shook me. ⌛️ Mortality is an abstract concept… until you see someone who’s on the clock. On my 40th birthday, my dad—a man of few words—sat me down and told me: “Whatever dreams you have, go chase them now because you’re a lot less likely to do it in your 50s.” I took Dad’s words to heart and adopted a mantra: The time is now. By decade’s end, my life...