Mrs. K’s Secret


“Kevin’s poor performance shows lack of understanding. I expect improvement.”

That's what Mrs. K—my high school calculus teacher—said on a progress report back in 1989.

Mrs. K was a real ball-buster… never satisfied with my work. Her comment—and the failing grade—were a wake-up call. I doubled my effort… but saw little improvement. It felt like I was chasing a moving target.

Only later did I learn that Mrs. K failed to mention one important thing on that progress report:

My 69 was the highest grade in the class.

Mrs. K didn’t care about grades—she cared about potential. She knew a secret:

Nobody reaches their potential without someone raising the bar.

Upon graduation, I rolled the dice and asked Mrs. K to write a recommendation letter for a prestigious college scholarship I’d applied for.

I never saw what she wrote, but I can only assume it was more positive than that progress report, because a few weeks later I heard back from UT:

I was awarded a full ride in engineering. 🤘

But the story doesn’t end there…

Fast-forward 36 years.

Recently, while rummaging through some old boxes, I stumbled upon that progress report from 1989. I Googled Mrs. K and discovered that she was still alive (at 95!) and lived in the same house.

I wrote Mrs. K a letter to thank her for pushing me toward excellence. I told her about some of my academic and career achievements and included a copy of that old progress report.

A few weeks later, I received a response from Mrs. K’s daughter. She told me that her mom’s health was failing but her mind was sharp as ever.

She said Mrs. K remembered me—the “lanky, blond-headed boy”—and got a kick out of my letter. She only had one comment:

“He should have studied more.”

All the best,

Kevin (@camp4) 🤙

600 1st Ave, Ste 330 PMB 92768, Seattle, WA 98104-2246
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